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My children's biological Dad tries to make them hate me.

My children's biological father and their step mother try to make the kids hate us. They degrade me as their other Dad(step-dad) and try to take away any influence and authority I have, even though I have been their other dad for around 7 years.

I need help. My children's BD (biological dad)is always downing me to my kids and telling them I am not their Dad or anything at all to them. He disagrees with everything I try to teach them. He and his wife (the kids step-mom)try to make us look awful and twist things around. They harass us and it is making mine and my wifes life hard. They send nasty emails and threaten to take us to court to get our kids.

We cannot live happily or with any peace in this state, and it only gets worse as time progresses. I have been their other dad for nearly 7 years. I hoped as time passed it would lessen.

Please help me. My wife and I need support and advice, also some understanding friends to help. I just don't know what to do. I really don't think he will stop. It seems like he is out for blood.

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Posted by: griffinjoe at 2008-04-07

I'm very new to being a stepdad but feel that most of us go threw the same battle be diffrent than him ask the kids what they do on his weekend and offer somthing more like the truth if the say dad say's your wrong gather all supporting evidence and educate them on topic teach your kids how to use there unconsious and consious mind to filter these items stay postive no matter the problem if you object negative it will happen failure is and illusion we set are selfs up for think positive and find a solution if he had real reason to take the kids then he would have done. he playing a mind game and sounds like he is wining keeping you guys on your toe me an dmy wife are going through simaler things every nice thing we do set us back 50ft so it seems

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